On Sunday I was invited to a reading at the historical, yet newly renovated, now known as Soho House. It was built as a Jewish-owned department store in prewar Berlin before being confiscated by the Nazis. Soon thereafter, it was home of the administration for the Hitler Jugend. After the war, the building was occupied by the communist regime. In the decade I’ve lived in Berlin, it has been boarded up and seemingly abandoned. Until now that is. (The story may seem extraordinary but I assure you that as far as Berlin is concerned, it isn’t.)
I’m not so sure how it once was, but the building is now large and airy featuring high ceilings and modern art. We didn’t encounter very many people inside but the few we did meet were sure to tell us that they were members.
The Soho House is the epitome of exclusivity. It boasts itself as a members-only private club, which essentially means that you have to be on the list to make it through the door. Luckily it only took a short email to get myself on that list.
The reading was in the so-called Library, which may be the first library I’ve ever encountered featuring a full bar. I ordered us 2 coffees. When the bartender demanded 13 euros in return I almost choked. Perhaps members get a discount but I doubt it. I can only imagine what a membership would cost. (More importantly, the membership application calls for a photo, career history and a recommendation).
We left the lap of luxury 2 hours later with only a few euros left but hungry as bears. Luckily our favorite meal was only a block away. We were at the Com Viet in a matter of minutes. The concrete building never housed any regime’s elite but instead was built as housing for the people of East Berlin. Membership is not required to enter the authentic, family owned Vietnamese restaurant but only the chosen will be lucky enough to find a table. It is small and crowded with unbeatable prices. It is the antithesis of the Soho House.
The owner came to our table to check on us. We are regular customers and the boss makes sure that we know that he knows it – every time. We can afford to keep coming back since our 2 big dinners cost less than we had paid for 2 coffees just an hour before and a block away. I feel special and welcome and appreciated at the Com Viet. It is almost like being a member.







